2024 M*therf*cker!

Here I am again. It has taken me two years to remember that this blog exists.

I am 41 years old. There are less years ahead of me than behind me. I now care less about people's opinions and wear bikinis with little to zero inhibition.

I am still married to an amazing man. We go on spontaneous trips and domestic vacations, which were easily done thanks to our DINK lifestyle--Dual Income, No Kids. We planned a trip to my sister, brother in law and nephew in the UK by the end of the year. I hope it pushes through.

I am still a Public Attorney, now working appellate practice. I have given up trial court litigation seven years ago. My cortisol levels have eased, thanks to this shift. 

In 2023 I lost my father to a complication following a preventive surgery.  I rest in the thought that in his hour of passing my Mama was there to welcome him. I miss them both terribly. 

I have seen several heartbreaks of losing my mother and father in a span of 4 years. I thought I would have more time with Papang. I was wrong.  Nothing is guaranteed.  Nothing is certain. 

Technically I'm an orphan. Losing my Mama rendered me untethered. I guess this is normal. 

My life is as normal as its gets. There are no fireworks  or frantic goals. I intend to just cruise through.  

41 is amazing, in spite of the pain.


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